I dont normally do this but...
Overpony, if you would like to spend a while speaking to me about this I might be able to help you, I know you dont really know me but I think it might be better if you do.
Feel free to add me on steam and we'll chat about this; I cant really put all I have to say into one forum post so... Please add me and chat to me about this.
You'll find me through most main members in HGN or search "Zen" and look for the one with the Red panda avatar with a christmas Hat on.
Wishing you the best of luck.