Your server system is awesome. Without it, we will never truly RP on the server. You need t learn that there has to be some leniency for AT LEAST NOW. We need at least 20 players on the server daily in order to create what you're tying to do. Just relax for a moment let thing take their course for a while.
For everyone else who is reading this, WE NEED MORE PLAYERS. The only way that will happen is if get a little social about this. If you know ANYONE who plays Minecraft, ask them to join the server. If you have facebook, twitter or Google+, then make a post about this. If every active player did this, we could have the server up to snuff in a couple weeks. But we need everyone to put in an effort to do this.
P.S. We know what you're trying to do, just hang on for a little while. Maybe we can get this to work!
Yeah, I think what would help if somebody should make a video series on YouTube like ApocheDemon did.