Quote from: DragonkingYour kids ass, that is the question.
A bit more serious, why are parents these days such big giant pussies? What happened to the days when smacking your kid around for misbehaving was not only acceptable, but encouraged? When I was little and I screwed up or misbehaved, my parents beat my ass. That was that. Now, while everything doesn't warrant say smacking or whipping with a belt, there are times when the only way he/she will learn is if you bust them in the lip or something.
The problem with kids these days is that by not whipping their ass, they get a skewed perspective of life. Things get a little rough and they think their existence is shattered. You tell them to clean up and they say "no", you smack them. Simple and effective.
Now, what are your thoughts on this? Should parents hit their kids? is whipping your kids ass a sign of bad parenting and irresponsibility?
Discuss !
Yes parents should beat heir kids, There are too many little kids/ teens in this world that can get away with too much crap. For example, I went over to my friends house one day and his little brother was cursing at his mom, she didn't even say anything about it! she just walked off into her room. Now, if that was me in that situation. I would have a black eye and probaly have my bags packed up too.
And it's not a sign of bad parenting and irresponsibility. Your kids will most of time act in public like they do a home. So parents better start wearing that ass out.
There's three of us.
Ian, Jacob, and of course me. We're all friends, and we've been friends since 3rd and 4th grade.
Me and Ian were never beaten. Spanked. Or restricted from doing whatever the fuck we wanted. We were allowed to play video games whenever we won't, go out with friends whenever, stay out late as hell, and whatever. Jacob, however, was not. Jacob was spanked when he did bad things as a young kid. He was restricted, HEAVILY. Shielded from society.
Jacob is the only one out of all of us that gets into a lot of trouble, smokes pot, and drinks alcohol. Me and Ian are clean a whistle.
Another friend of mine, Eric, was born into a highly religious family. Their family follows the bible like hell, but spanks their children. Eric has almost been expelled from school. He stole computers from school. He's failing school. He gets into trouble a fuck ton. He was spanked, and beaten as a child.
Me and Ian were not.
Another friend of mine, Carmine, same thing. Religious family, spanked a lot when he did bad things, etc etc. Same thing. He mixed with the wrong people, and did everything his mother prevented him from doing. Drugs, alcohol, etc.
Me and Ian weren't spanked. Weren't beaten. We were taught.
Beating your kids does nothing but keep them from doing bad things in FRONT of you. They will fuck about when you're not looking.
Spanking your children is BARBARIC. Whoever does it is white trash, or a fucking nigger (There is a difference between a black person and a nigger, FYI). So don't do it. It's horrible, it's wrong, and if I was the Government, I'd fine families 2000 dollars for doing it and take their children away. It's fucking retarded.
Beating works in some situations, IE involving blatant disrespect. In other situations, its best to ground, and in still others, the best course of action is to let the kid fuck up and see why you told him not to do it.
You need to instill discipline, but not so harshly that it counteracts itself.
If my child is not in the fetal position when I get home, I know I have failed as a parent.
OH SHIT Molested Rubber Ducky is HOME..
/me HITS THE DIRT!
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My younger siblings are almost never disciplined. As a result of this they scream, bitch, never do what they are asked to do, and are general pussies.
My little brother barely gets hit and he screams and goes like crazy. My sister just cries really loudly and runs to my mom and is like "THEY HURT ME!!!"
DISCIPLINE WORKS
I suppose a certain amount of Discipline is needed to keep them in line, and out of trouble, some little bastards out there deserve a good smack, you know, the ones who hit their own parents, disrespect them, and are generally out of order.
But other cases where the kid does nothing wrong, and the parent(s) take there anger out on them, is wrong.
It's a gamble i guess.
I'm just fucking tired of kids running around with there pants hanging out their waist thinking its fucking cool,
In prison that means you WANT To be raped,
If I were to have ever disrespected my mom back then such as swearing at her I would get be-headed,
I was raised right, I'm happy with what I do now and what I believe in, I dont follow the crowd and I'm not an idiot, or a sheep. And its all because of good parenting.
Quote from: Laferio I'm just fucking tired of kids running around with there pants hanging out their waist thinking its fucking cool,
In prison that means you WANT To be raped,
If I were to have ever disrespected my mom back then such as swearing at her I would get be-headed,
I was raised right, I'm happy with what I do now and what I believe in, I dont follow the crowd and I'm not an idiot, or a sheep. And its all because of good parenting.
I know man, its stupid how society has derailed so badly to have people wearing their pants so low it looks like their going to fall down at any moment. I don't get beat, instead my parents punish me in other ways. I learn from my mistakes and don't do the stupid crap they tell me not to. Parents should learn to punish their children in other ways instead of beating them. Ground them, take the stuff they like away from them, make them unable to do anything but lay in their bed and stare into a wall instead of constantly beating a child when he/she makes a mistake and causing psychological damage that will cause the child to grow up into a murder or an outcast of society.
You beat a dog to hard and it runs away. You beat a child to much you kill any chance of them being a well rounded fully functioing member of socity. althou i do belive a few back-hands now and anougth to set you straight.
Quote from: Creeding You beat a dog to hard and it runs away. You beat a child to much you kill any chance of them being a well rounded fully functioing member of socity. althou i do belive a few back-hands now and anougth to set you straight.
But, think of it like this. Where will they go when both their hands are nailed to the floor?
Quote from: Molested Rubber Ducky Quote from: Creeding You beat a dog to hard and it runs away. You beat a child to much you kill any chance of them being a well rounded fully functioing member of socity. althou i do belive a few back-hands now and anougth to set you straight.
But, think of it like this. Where will they go when both their hands are nailed to the floor?
Ma boi....that is when the rape begins
Don't forget to use a condom...
Well my friends little brother has never been beatin as far as I know and he is the most annoying little bastard you could ever meet. I mean he bitches if you tell him to go away, cries so loud it hurts your ears when you push him or somthing, and then will blame shit on me and his brother when he doesnt get what he wants.
And on a side note both my brother and I had the belt many a' times when we were younger except he does pot and shit like that. While I don't do any of it.
Lawl
When i was small my parents also lets say beated me ... when i was misbehaving , saying impolite words and other stuff, thats how they made a polite person out of me.
I guess children should be beaten for bad stuff.
Quote from: 19YearsOldLesbian When i was small my parents also lets say beated me ... when i was misbehaving , saying impolite words and other stuff, thats how they made a polite person out of me.
I guess children should be beaten for bad stuff.
Well yeah, but not for something small.. and defining beating.. probably not harsh... but enough to make them yelp.
Yeah ofcourse you don't have to beat them senseless... but so they would learn .
My kids, If they do something wrong, Ill just say "I'll get the belt" and they dont act up anymore.
(I know it's a bit of a necro, kinda, but meh.)
I was always beaten when I did something bad, but I wasn't beaten for everything, mind you. For example, if I had a cookie before dinner, I was just told not to do it. And I didn't do it anymore.
However...I once called my mom a bitch when I was in the fifth grade. Good GOD my ass cheeks were sore. Most people got the feather duster, or the leather belt. I got the belt BUCKLE.
But, this sort of affected me. For a year or so, I thought I was being abused because the media told me, "If parents ever physically discipline their kids, they'll turn into horrible mental trainwrecks." But, I was thinking about it from a parent's view after that year, and saw my cousin's kids...
These kids are never disciplined. They scream and cry for what they want. They're given PS3s for nothing, really, and have pretty much five or so hand-held game systems. PSPs, DSes, just to name a few. These kids even HIT their parent! My lord, I HATE them even now. If you tell them to stop, they'll do the exact opposite, and try to piss you off. It's like their little maschoists.
It might be because they're missing their father figure, as he left my cousin. She lives with her parents, who take care of the kids while she goes to medical school.
Anyways, there's my two cents (or dollar, lol.)
I agree with you there Killabreu, Disipline is important in small doses, violence, through medacore puts them in line and on the right part, it's a sign of respect, knowing your boundries and what you cannot cross.
Everuone should know his/her/its place.
I think people should beat their kids if they turn out to be British and like crumpets.
(No offense Silver)
I think parents should be able to raise their kids to be smart and to know things. If you raise your child right, they shouldn't have to be physically harmed. That is just my opinion.
You people seem to think getting beaten and being spanked is the same thing...
I'd rather be spanked than get beaten.
well.... span is other thing already.
You mean spank?
Oh wait... I remember when we did that 19Yearoldlesbian... good times.
/me rage quits.
I think children should be punished if they do idiotic things.
But the parents should of raised them well enough so they won't do idiotic things.
I dont really think spanking is necessary, I was only spanked a few times as a little kid, maybe 5 years old, and I turned out fine. I mean, I don't disrespect my parents by cussing at them or anything. I have a friend that does, however.
Just give them a stern yelling, find their weak spot, like T.V, and take it away for a bit.